Some Nigerian women have shared their close encounters with their husband’s mistresses also known as side chicks. They disclosed this after a marriage therapist, Shamseddin Giwa, insisted that a wife has no business confronting a side chick but should instead face her husband. Yes, its my position that a wife should face her husband and not reduce herself by going after a side chick. Not only will she be validating the side chick, it can also be dangerous in some cases, Mr Giwa wrote. I understand thered be different excuses to justify engaging a side chick but my position is the same, it is your husband you should face. However, some of the stories the women shared got him asking if side chicks are becoming more audacious. According to one woman, her husband’s side chick attacked her at a mall five years ago, tore her clothes for not allowing him to spend the night in her house. I didn’t even touch her but she spent her last cash in court. And as for hubby, he saw hell. Let me just stop here. But my God fought for me. The girl later kpai last year, she wrote. Another woman revealed that her husband brought his side chick all the way from Benin city to their house for the New Year festival. I offered her food and drinks and even when she was going back to her hotel in the night, my husband came to ask me if there was any soup left, I should package it for him so that they will buy fufu on their way, she wrote. One Fatima narrated how her husband tried to divorce her over a side chick when she was five month pregnant. I was five months pregnant and was having complications in my pregnancy. Was on the floor bleeding. He was raining insults on me and was looking for a paper to write divorce. It was his sister’s daughter that stopped him and I was taken to the hospital. Anyway, we are good now but I have now but I have not forgotten. Sir, I asked this question, how can I heal from that trauma. It has become a trauma for me. Anytime I remember, I will spend the whole day crying. It is still hurting me. I don’t know why I can’t even get it off my mind. I need help, she wrote. 
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