Dear Young Man,
Have you noticed how women, no matter how low they are, still feel entitled to the very best of men? A fat woman demands a slim fit guy. A broke woman wants a rich man. An ugly woman insists on a handsome man. A short woman won’t settle for less than a tall man. A woman without a car demands a man who drives one. A dumb woman insists on an intelligent man.
Do you see the pattern? Women always demand up. Regardless of what they bring—or don’t bring—they believe they deserve a man above their league. Hypergamy is in their DNA. They aim for better, richer, taller, stronger, sharper. And they don’t feel shame in demanding it. Society backs them, applauds them, and encourages them.
But when a man—who has worked, built himself, stacked his wealth, developed his mind and body—dares to set his own standards, suddenly he is shamed. If a man says, “I want a virgin,” they call him insecure. If he says, “I don’t want a single mother,” they call him heartless. If he says, “I want a submissive, feminine woman,” they call him controlling. Men who demand value are mocked into silence, while women who demand the impossible are applauded.
And this is why most men settle for less. Not because they want to, but because society bullies them into lowering their standards. The same society that tells women “never settle” tells men “be realistic.” That’s the scam. That’s the trap. And that’s why weak men end up with women who don’t respect them.
Men, I’m telling you—stop settling. If women can demand up, then so can you. If they can chase the best while bringing little to the table, then you must vet ruthlessly and demand excellence from any woman in your life. Don’t let shame rob you of your standards. Don’t let guilt push you into trash relationships.
You are the prize. Act like it.
Share this with a brother who’s being pressured to lower his standards. He needs to be reminded that kings don’t beg for crumbs.
Stay wise..